--000-- Important statement - Some of those who are calling themselves as my so-called friends on the basis of acquaintance which has happened in a short duration of past time, behaved with me in past in a manner which was crossing over the limits of friendship in that time, vexatious, objectionable even after the frequent admonitions given by me, so I do not consider them as my friends who crosses over the limits of friendship. So I am not duty-bound to publish or answer their comments which are given on any of my blogs, or to answer their email, or to accept their friend invite on any of the social website like facebook, or to answer their messages sent through the comment form on blog. So please take a kind note that if it will be found out that the abovementioned persons tried to contact with me directly or indirectly by any types of means mentioned before or through any other person by incuring him / her inbetween or by maknig fake profile through it or by any other means, through the blog or through any other medium or if it will be found out that they have done any type of act which is vexatious for me, then proper action will be taken on it. Also by all this incidence the decision is taken that the right of publishing all the suspicious seeming comments given on the blog and the right of answering any of the suspicious seeming messages coming through the comment form is reserved, readers please take a kind note of it. ----- 00000 ----- महत्त्वाचे निवेदन - भूतकाळातील थोडक्या कालावधीकरता झालेल्या माझ्या ओळखीच्या आधारावर स्वतःला माझे तथाकथित मित्र म्हणवून घेणार्‍या काही जणांनी पूर्वी मी वारंवार समज दिल्यानंतरही, माझ्याशी तत्कालीन पद्धतीच्या मैत्रीच्या मर्यादा ओलांडणारे, मनस्ताप देणारे, आक्षेपार्ह वर्तन केले, त्यामुळे अशा मैत्रीच्या मर्यादा ओलांडणार्‍यांना मी माझे मित्र मानत नाही. त्यामुळे माझ्या कोणत्याही ब्लॉगवर आलेल्या त्यांच्या कॉमेंट्स प्रकाशित करणे किंवा त्यांना उत्तर देणे, किंवा त्यांच्या इमेलला उत्तर देणे, किंवा त्यांच्या फेसबुकसारख्या कोणत्याही सोशल वेबसाईटवर आलेल्या फ्रेंड इन्व्हाईटला ऍक्सेप्ट करणे, किंवा त्यांनी ब्लॉगवरील कॉमेंट फॉर्मद्वारा पाठवलेल्या निरोपाला उत्तर देणे यासाठी मी बांधील नाही. त्यामुळे उपरोल्लेखित व्यक्तिंनी आधी उल्लेख केलेल्या कोणत्याही प्रकारे किंवा दुसर्‍या एखाद्या व्यक्तीला मध्ये घालून तिच्याद्वारे किंवा बनावट प्रोफाईल तयार करून त्याद्वारे किंवा इतर कोणत्याही प्रकारे, ब्लॉग किंवा इतर कोणत्याही माध्यमातून माझ्याशी प्रत्यक्ष वा अप्रत्यक्ष प्रकारे संपर्क साधण्याचा प्रयत्न केल्याचे आढळल्यास किंवा मला मनस्ताप होईल अशा प्रकारचे कोणतेही कृत्य त्यांनी केल्याचे आढळल्यास, त्यावर योग्य ती कारवाई करण्यात येईल याची कृपया नोंद घ्यावी. तसेच या सर्व प्रकारामुळे ब्लॉगवर आलेल्या संशयास्पद वाटणार्‍या सर्व कॉमेंट्स प्रकाशित करण्याचे आणि कॉमेंट्स फॉर्मद्वारे आलेल्या संशयास्पद वाटणार्‍या कोणत्याही निरोपाला उत्तर देण्याचे अधिकार राखून ठेवण्याचा निर्णय घेण्यात आला आहे, याची वाचकांनी कृपया नोंद घ्यावी. --000--

Saturday, October 22, 2016

Victim of foul play

     The person who becomes your friend, talks with you in sweet manner, speaks reassuringly when you are in trouble for first time, you trust that person. You seek help from that person. You think that person is your close friend. Then the behaviour of that person starts to change slowly and slowly. You feel it strange, but try to convince yourself, that it is nothing but the communication gap between you and your close friend. Then after some time something happens and you go away from that person due to your personal reasons, but you still want to continue your friendship with your close friend, though the contact between you and your friend becomes less and less day by day. Still you try to contact with your close friend with modern communication tools and surprise to found that your close friend do not respond to your communication. Then you think that there must be some reason and you again try to communicate with your friend and your close friend responds to you very curtly. When you try to talk with patience your close friend plays with your patience and irritates you, not only that your close friend simply refuses to recognize you, but still your friend gives some clues that once you and your friend were having close friendship. You think that your friend has forgotten something and try to remind your friend those things. But this time your friend accuses you of the things which you had never done before. You become confused, but you see troubled expressions on your friend's face and you don't mind what your friend is saying to you at that time. Suddenly your friend stops accusing you and tells you to not to keep any contact with your friend anymore. After that incidence you think now it is enough and try not to contact your friend anymore. Now it is turn of your friend and your friend tries to contact you in apologetic way. When you respond to your friend's actions, your friend once again accuses you and warn to not to communicate with your friend anymore. You feel hurt and try to go away from your friend and again your friend communicates with you in apologetic way and you respond to the communication. Then suddenly your friend insults you and keep insulting you in a very bad manner. Every new insult is worse than the previous insult. By seeing that you realize that the behaviour of your friend is not because of some pressure or some fear, but the insulting then apologetic then again insulting behaviour is nature of your friend and other people are supporting and encouraging to your friend's behaviour. Due to that your friend has become so cruel that if you will give all yourself for your friendship, still then it will not be sufficient for your friend. At this time you are just stretched behind your friend due to your friendship and it has teared all your health, wealth, family life and other relationships and there is no end to this behaviour, but this cycle will go on and on finishing you. This friendship is no more but just a mere trap for you, at this time it is better for you to break such a friendship and never again communicate with that person once who was your close friend, by forgetting all things. This is the only solution for you who is the victim of foul play in my story.      

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